Divorce mediation is a process whereby a mediator works with both parties to reach an agreement on all terms. A mediator is there only to keep the process structured and help each party accomplish their goals as much as possible.

The objective is to be able to have an open discussion and sharing of ideas to make progress. The mediator keeps each party in check so there is no yelling or talking over one another. Both sides are able to express their desires, and the mediator helps organize all the information and identifies the major issues.

Mediation serves as a forum for discussing all the major issues related to divorce. The ultimate goal is to come up with solutions that the two sides can agree to. This will involve each side compromising on certain issues as well. Generally, all the issues related to divorce are either classified as division of assets and debts, financial support, and parenting.

The ultimate advantage of this process is that it allows the parties a chance to resolve the issues on their own, as opposed to having a judge do it for them. This increases the likelihood that both sides will be content with the outcomes.

Mediation is also less hostile often times than litigation. This makes it a lot easier on the children as well, as opposed to having it drag on in court for months or even years. It's far more simple and straightforward, and doesn't require the need for lawyers to get involved unless desired.

Divorce mediation can be used to resolve all issues. Even if domestic violence has been a part of the relationship, mediation is still a possibility as long as the abused party agrees to it. Any concerns can be relayed to the mediator, attorney, or hearing officer.

Always keep in mind that you or the other party can withdraw from mediation at any time.

As mentioned, divorce lawyers don't have to be apart of the process. This is strictly up to each side. You can consult a divorce lawyer before mediation to get a better understanding of what to expect and advice on decision-making. Lawyers can be present during the session(s) as well. When an agreement is in place, then both sides are encouraged to review the terms with a lawyer.

Mediation is not always the best route for every case, but can be ideal if both sides are more concerned about what's best for their children and want to have a good post-divorce relationship.

By Bill Langely, EzineArticles.com Platinum Level Expert Author

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