Brad Micklin

Blog Posts
  • Yes, I said "reduce"

    Jan 16, 2012

    No one ever wants to pay an attorney. It’s a harsh reality of my profession. Moreover, in this trying economic climate, it is even more difficult for people to afford legal services. I have encountered many who need help but,…

  • Land of the Free

    Dec 30, 2011

    Normally, my posts are related to family law matters, the area of my expertise. However, from time to time, there are matters I feel so significant to comment upon that I expand the scope of the blog. On the eve…

  • Good is not good enough

    Dec 14, 2011

    This will be my first and, hopefully, only self-serving blog. It was prompted by a conversation with a long-standing client. She indicated that people said to her that lawyers will do whatever they can to complicate matters and run up…

  • Surviving the Holidays While You’re Surviving Divorce

    Dec 8, 2011

    The holidays are centering points for families. What do you do with the holidays when dealing divorce or broken relationships make you wonder, "how can I celebrate anything?" How can you embrace Thanksgiving or sing about "Joy to the World"…

  • Military Divorce - Unique Elements Make Them More Complicated Than Civilian Divorce

    Dec 8, 2011

    Every divorce is unfortunate and stressful; the unique stresses of a military divorce can make it even more difficult to make necessary decisions for the good of the family. DIVORCE MILITARY DIFFERS FROM CIVILIAN Military divorces sometimes include elements that…

  • Alimony: what's good for the goose....

    Nov 15, 2011

    In the matter of Dudas v. Dudas, a trial court decision approved for publishing on November 1, 2011, the trial court can consider a spouse's post-filing increase in salary between the date of fling of a divorce complaint and trial.…

  • Situations Where Your Last Will May Be Considered Void

    Oct 20, 2011

    Drafting a last will and testament is something we only hope to do one time. Creating a document that specifies our wishes after our deaths can cause some anxiety in that we are reminded of our mortality, but more than…

  • How to Rearrange Life Post Divorce

    Oct 20, 2011

    Divorce or legal separation can be the most traumatic experience in one's life. It can make life so dull that you can easily fall prey to depression and anxiety. If you do not control the frustration and sadness on time…

  • How to Handle a Prenuptial Agreement

    Sep 20, 2011

    So you've met your soul mate, and you've decided to become married as soon as possible. But now all your friends and family are telling you to get a prenuptial agreement in order to protect everything you've built up to…

  • Top Myths About Last Wills

    Sep 20, 2011

    We all have a list of chores to complete, and many of us may not look forward to doing every task. This could be said about drafting a last will and testament we know it is a necessity, but who…

  • How to Resolve Family Conflicts

    Aug 10, 2011

    Conflicts arise in every family. Sometimes, conflicts are small and are resolved within a matter of minutes. Other times, conflicts are big and take months or years to resolve. No matter the size of the argument, there are healthy and…

  • Elder Law - Five Questions to Ask Your Lawyer When Drafting a Living Will

    Aug 10, 2011

    Have you considered drafting a living will? Are you aware of what a living will is, and how it differs from a traditional last will and testament? If you have suffered severe health problems in recent times, a doctor or…

  • Virtual Infidelity-How the Online World is Fueling Divorce Applications

    Jul 5, 2011

    The continuous growth of the internet has had a significant effect on divorce applications with Legal personnel specializing in family law having stated that the vast majority of petitions that they prepared in 2010 made some reference to social networking…

  • Is Divorce Mediation Right For Your Situation?

    Jul 5, 2011

    Divorce mediation is a process whereby a mediator works with both parties to reach an agreement on all terms. A mediator is there only to keep the process structured and help each party accomplish their goals as much as possible.…

  • Trusts, Wills and Estates - Prepare Now

    Jun 2, 2011

    Most people think of a will as something to fear or something that needs to be done later in life. Unfortunately situations do occur; situations that can leave a person incapacitated or worse. These are the types of circumstances that…

  • Creating an Effective Parenting Plan

    Jun 2, 2011

    Making an effective parenting plan is not always easy. It can be overwhelming and scary at times trying to figure out what to include to make it the best it can be. Parents may not know what needs to go…

  • How to Get Through Divorce Advice For Women

    May 19, 2011

    Divorce advice for women is plentiful, but beware of what you listen to. Divorce advice for women can be confusing. It's not "happily ever after," after all. Surviving divorce is one thing, but living to tell about it is another.…

  • How to Tell Your Wife You Want a Divorce

    May 19, 2011

    That's it. You've come to the end of your patience with your marriage and it's time to tell your wife you want a divorce. How do you tell the other half you want to be whole again? To tell your…

  • How Does Divorce Effect Children

    Apr 28, 2011

    Children can easily become the victims in a divorce. Emotional Stress and Resentment Marriages that end in divorce can affect the entire family, including the family pet. The ones who are hurt the most are the children, regardless of age.…

  • How To Avoid Money Loss In A Divorce

    Apr 28, 2011

    A primary consideration and objective during a divorce case is to protect assets and income. You need to take a proactive stance to avoid money loss in a divorce. Hopefully your spouse will join in this effort. However, keep in…

  • Financial Benefits of Divorce

    Mar 20, 2011

    Marriage and money don't always mix. Divorce is rarely pleasant, and it is a very expensive endeavor. However, there can be benefits to divorce if it comes down to necessity. In some cases, couples find themselves pressed into a divorce…

  • Are Divorce Expenses Tax Deductable?

    Mar 20, 2011

    Are Divorce Expenses Tax Deductable? posted on eHow.com The Internal Revenue Service allows divorced taxpayers certain tax deductions and income exclusions for expenses incurred during divorce proceedings. The IRS allows taxpayers to deduct certain legal fees and expenses. Taxpayers may…

  • Now you can really end up in the dog house

    Oct 18, 2010

    The Appellate Division recently reiterated the family court's ability to remove a spouse from his/her home during a divorce case absent a domestic violence restraining order. This clarifies a long-standing ambiguity in New Jersey family law dating back to 1969…

  • Remember, killing your spouse will not help you divorce

    Oct 18, 2010

    The New Jersey Supreme Court decided on January 6, 2010 in Kay v Kay cite unavailable, that, if one spouse dies during a divorce, the decedent’s estate could continue suing the surviving spouse for dissipation of marital assets in their…